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Reflections on 51 Years of Marriage
June 7, 2021 marks 51 years of marriage to my truly extraordinary wife, Ruth, following 2.5 years of dating. I'm in awe of both the uber-dynamic adventures we've shared and how fast the years have flown by! Amidst my cornucopia of memories, I'll endeavor to hone in on and relate several highlights of our marriage and key lessons that we've learned over the decades.
Hope for Marginalized Male Partners
During my counseling and coaching practice in recent years, I have worked with an increasing number of men who regularly feel victimized, disenfranchised, or emasculated by their women partners. What I've witnessed in serving these men, and often also their wives or girlfriends, is two colliding forces.
Sharing Feedback
Graciously giving and receiving feedback in your love relationship is a communication art requiring continual refinement. Both the person offering feedback and the recipient need to take responsibility for a clean transaction, which can have an ego-effacing effect. Even as seasoned therapists and coaches, married over 50 years, Ruth and I regularly seek to improve our own communication with one another.
Aaah, Retreats!
In late February of this year, my wife Ruth and I engaged in a five-day guided, silent retreat, the latest of many similar ones in which we’ve participated. I’ll describe that experience in this blog post.
The Energy of Love
February, the love month, most notably celebrated on the Hallmark holiday of Valentine’s Day, is here again. Love is one of, if not the most, common topics in books, articles, movies, songs, and discussions. However, love has so many facets and dimensions that we gain much more from developing heart, gut, and mental wisdom about love through life experience than we do from describing it.